September 01, 2005

Observations...

I'm definately in a different mindset in gradute schol then I was in for undergraduate and even high school...

People would always tell me that high school was the best time of their lives... I think it was my worst. I didn't enjoy it. I felt pressured to go to school and "perform" to someone else's standards. I honestly think the only skill that I actually learned in high school was how to bull$hit. It is four years of my life I want to forget.

Undergraduate college was the best four year of my life IMHO. I had a great time. I met a TON of friends and felt good about what I was doing. But I still attended because I "had to". You can't get a decent job anymore without that magic peice of paper. So while I enjoyed the four years and loved doing what I did, it was still something that was just assumed you had to do.

But my graduate time, while still only in its infancy, is turning out to be completly different. The students and even the professors are in a different mindset. Everyone works and understands that you work (it is a night program). The work load is a different kind of load since I'm used to engineering type assignments. Still tough, but a different kind of tough... More importantly, I wasn't forced by anyone or any group to attend. I chose to go to grad school on my own to better my career. That is definately something I cannot say about my bachelor's degree or high school.

It's also very motivating. I'm encouraged by the different style of classes and the way thing work out. I'm very excited for the coming years. And, when I finish it all, I hope I can walk away feeling content and happy with what I just accomplished. Instead of just walking away saying, "OK, now I have a degree, my magic piece of paper. So what do I do now???"

Posted by Geek at September 1, 2005 09:44 AM

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I found your website via Technorati. I'm a new graduate student myself, but not in engineering... social work. I enjoy it so far, and I hope you are enjoying it as well. Ta-ta!

Posted by: April at September 1, 2005 11:47 AM

"OK, now I have a degree, my magic piece of paper. So what do I do now???"

EXACTLY what I thought when I graduated!!!!

I was lost. Every previous step had a next step. College was the end of the hand-held guidence. It was sink or swim time. Doggie-paddeling is nice :-) Although, as RJK says.... it's good to be me :-)

Posted by: acwmaiden at September 1, 2005 01:54 PM

EXACTLY!!! "Be me." Thats what I was looking for. It's almost like a bachelors is so common place now that the Masters is what I think I needed to be more like... me. ;)

Natural progression I guess...

Posted by: Geek at September 1, 2005 02:00 PM

I already have more edumacation than a woman of my drive needs ;-) Probly won't go for a masters. That only sat in the background 'cause it seemed like the natural progression that people would want for me. But you know what? I don't need it. But I'm sooo glad that you're happy where you are :-) *hugs*

Posted by: acwmaiden at September 1, 2005 02:11 PM

Me too... =)

BTW, you still haven't met Alex, have you? ;) You gotta come over sometime... Or we gotta come over sometime... Or something...

Posted by: Geek at September 1, 2005 02:29 PM

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