Why can't any of the friends I have be friends to Jen? Why can't any of the friends that Jen has be friends to me?

It's really aggrevating, and depressing that we cannot find a middle... Of all of the friends that Jen has, I am not close to a single one. I just know their names. I've only done something with two of Jen's friends outside of school related activites... Same with Jen. She only meets my friends when I attend a school event or do something computer related... And then she only gets to know them on a name basis.

Why can't we all just get along... :(